"She probably doesn't want to be bothered."
Your head writes the rejection before she says a word. The coach names that story and tells you what to do instead.
Your dating coach,
in your pocket.
Daniel Jacob's coaching in his own cloned voice, for meeting women in real life. Tell him what is happening, walk over while the app listens, and get his honest review after.
Android coming soon
- 3 days free
- Cancel anytime
- Launching soon
- 3 days free at launch
Hear him coach
One real question. One real answer.
This is what the app said, word for word, in Daniel's cloned voice. Nothing edited.
Alex, a student, asks
"I'm at a coffee shop. There's a girl reading by the window and I think she's really cute, but I'm nervous and I keep telling myself she doesn't want to be bothered."
Coach answers
Arrow keys move 5 seconds. Home and End jump to the start or the end. Enter plays or pauses.
Read the answer
Great question, Alex. Here's my take on it. So first, notice the outer context... she's by the window reading, her attention is on her book, that is key data you can use to start the interaction. Then bring your attention inside your body and notice the emotions that come up. What's in your chest, what's in your belly? Just let it be there and allow it to flow. And that thought that she doesn't want to be bothered, that's just a story your mind is giving you to hold you back. You're rejecting yourself before you even give her a chance to reject you. So ask yourself, do I truly want to approach her? If it's a yes, count down from three, two, one, and go. Walk over and say, hey, I know you're in the middle of reading, but I couldn't help myself, I found you really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. What's your name?
Sound familiar?
You see her. You want to. You walk away.
"I don't know what to say."
You don't need a script. You get one honest opening that fits where you are right now, and then you go.
"I don't know what went wrong."
After you talk to her, he reviews what actually happened and gives you the one thing to fix next time.
How it works
Before, during, after
He is with you for all three.
Prepare
Tell him what is happening and what is holding you back. He tells you what to do, out loud, in about a minute.
Approach
Tap Start, put the phone away, and go. It listens quietly and keeps only the words, never the audio. Tap Stop when it is over. Recording laws differ by place, so check yours first (see the FAQ).
Review
Get his feedback and a scorecard: the four phases of the approach, done or missed, and three skills (awareness, courage, detachment) rated 1 to 10. Disagree? Push back and he answers. Every approach is saved so you can see yourself improve.
See it work
Straight from the app
Where it fits
More than a video. Less than private coaching.
Feature
Free videos
ColdApproach.AI
1-on-1 coaching
About your exact situation
No
Yes
Yes
There right before you walk over
No
Yes, any time
Only on call days
Reviews what you actually said
No
Yes, every approach
Yes
Daniel himself
Recorded
His method and voice, by AI
Yes
Cost
Free
$97 a month, or $70.75 a month billed yearly. 3 days free.
By application
Meet the coach
Daniel Jacob
ColdApproach.AI is built on how Daniel Jacob actually coaches: his method, his words, and a clone of his voice.
- Founder and lead coach of Everlasting Confidence
- Coaching men since 2018
- His voice, cloned, with his consent, so every answer sounds like him
- His 1-on-1 program is The Accelerator
Visit everlastingconfidence.com (opens in a new tab) · His YouTube channel (opens in a new tab)
Pricing
Try it free for 3 days
Both plans start with 3 free days: 5 questions and 1 approach review to try it. Cancel at least 24 hours before the 3 days end and you pay nothing. Otherwise your plan starts and renews automatically until you cancel.
Monthly
$97 a month
Billed monthly after 3 free days
- 100 questions to the coach each month
- 50 approach reviews each month
- His cloned voice, or text if you prefer
- Every approach saved with its scorecard
Annual
$70.75 a month
$849 billed yearly after 3 free days. That is 27% off monthly.
- Everything in Monthly
- Save $315 a year
- Billed once a year instead of monthly
Your questions and reviews reset on the 1st of each month. Subscriptions are bought and managed in the App Store or Google Play, and renew there until you cancel at least 24 hours before the period ends.
FAQ
Questions, answered
Who is it for?
Men 18 and over who want to meet women in real life, in person, and get better at it. It is not for anyone under 18, and it is not therapy.
How is this different from asking ChatGPT?
A general chatbot gives general advice. ColdApproach.AI is built around Daniel Jacob's coaching: how he answers, the words he uses, and the framework he scores approaches with. It answers in his voice, and it can listen to your approach and review what actually happened, which a chat window cannot.
What happens to my audio?
Your phone turns your voice into text using Apple or Google speech recognition, on the device when your phone supports it. Otherwise Apple or Google may process the audio to return the text, under their own privacy policies. Only the text reaches us and the AI. We never receive or store audio, and the app never saves a recording.
Does it record the other person?
It does not save audio of anyone. During an approach your phone listens and turns what is said, including the other person's words, into text (on the device when your phone supports it). That transcript is kept in your account so the coach can review it and you can read it later. The other person is never profiled and the app never asks who they are. It only coaches you. Laws about recording or transcribing a conversation differ from place to place, and some require everyone's consent. You are responsible for following your local laws, and you must not use the approach feature where consent rules forbid it.
Is this a real person?
No. It is the AI version of Daniel Jacob. The reply is written by an AI model (Anthropic Claude) and spoken with a cloned version of his voice (ElevenLabs), made with his consent. If you want Daniel himself, see Want Daniel himself? below.
What if I freeze?
That is what the Prepare step is for. Before you walk over, tell your coach what is happening and what is holding you back, and he tells you what to do. If an approach does not go the way you hoped, stop it and he reviews it with you. Every approach stays on the Approach tab with a review, a score, and his feedback, and you can talk it through with him.
What do I get each month?
100 questions to the coach and 50 approach reviews, on both the monthly and the annual plan. The allowance resets on the 1st of each month, and unused ones do not roll over. During the 3 free days you get 5 questions and 1 approach review to try it.
Can I cancel?
Yes. Cancel at least 24 hours before the 3 free days end and you will not be charged. Subscriptions are bought and managed through the App Store or Google Play, so you cancel there. See the support page for the exact steps.
Is it on iPhone and Android?
Both are coming soon: iPhone first, then Android. Join the waitlist below and we email you on launch day.
Is this therapy?
No. ColdApproach.AI is dating coaching, not therapy or medical advice. It is educational. If you are struggling with your mental health, please talk to a licensed professional.
The Accelerator
Want Daniel himself?
The app gets you moving. For 1-on-1 coaching with Daniel Jacob, apply to his program.
Apply to The Accelerator (opens in a new tab)
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5 questions and 1 approach review to try it, then the full plan.
iPhone first, then Android. We email you once, the day it launches.
Android coming soon